[David Callin]

It is helpful, again, Barbara. Thanks for that. You've got me wondering about the rhyming. What have I been doing there?

I think Al Bowlly is much better known over here than he is in the US - thanks, in great part, to the wondrous Pennies from Heaven by Dennis Potter. See it if you can. (Although some of it has not dated well, perhaps.)

Hurrah, Paula! That is very kind of you. and I like your reasoning on acceptance v congruence. Something else to mull.

Cheers both

David